When parents separate or divorce, one of the most challenging aspects they face is determining custody arrangements for their children. In Alaska, the child custody mediation process offers a constructive way for parents to reach agreements that prioritize the well-being of their children. This blog post will guide you through the mediation process, highlighting its benefits and providing tips for making it a smoother experience.

 

 

Child custody mediation is a voluntary process where parents work with a neutral third-party mediator to negotiate custody and visitation arrangements. Unlike a court trial, where a judge makes the final decision, mediation empowers parents to collaborate and find solutions that fit their unique family dynamics.  Owner Caitlin Shortell is trained in mediation, and ensures that the entire firm is well-versed in this productive form of alternative dispute resolution.

 

 

1. Control and Flexibility: Mediation generally allows parents to have a say in the outcome, creating a more tailored agreement that suits their family's needs than rulings at the end of a child custody or divorce trial. This flexibility can lead to more satisfactory and sustainable arrangements.

 

2. Reduced Conflict: By fostering open communication, mediation can help reduce hostility between parents, creating a more amicable environment for children.  However, our law firm does not recommend mediation in cases where one party has perpetrated domestic violence or financially abused the other party. 

 

3. Cost-Effective: Mediation is often less expensive than going through a trial, which often will require continuances, which result in delay and can increase legal fees. For this reason, mediation can save both time and legal fees, making it a financially viable option for many families.

 

4. Confidentiality: Mediation sessions are typically private, allowing parents to discuss sensitive issues without fear of public scrutiny.

 

 

1. Initial Preparation: Before mediation, parents should gather relevant information, including financial documents, schedules, and any other materials that may aid in discussions. It can also be beneficial to outline personal goals and concerns regarding custody.

 

2. Choosing a Mediator: In Alaska, mediators can be court-appointed or selected by the parents. It's essential to choose someone experienced in family law and skilled in handling sensitive matters.

 

3. Mediation Sessions: During sessions, the mediator facilitates discussions, ensuring both parents have the opportunity to express their views. The mediator may also suggest potential solutions while keeping the focus on the children's best interests.

 

4. Reaching an Agreement: If parents can agree on custody and visitation terms, the mediator will help draft a written agreement. This document can then be submitted to the court for approval, making it legally binding.

 

5. Post-Mediation Steps: Should mediation result in an agreement, it's crucial to adhere to the terms outlined. If disputes arise later, parents can revisit mediation or seek legal intervention.

 

 

- Stay Child-Centered: Keep the focus on what is in the best interest of the children. This mindset can guide discussions and help reduce emotional tension.

  

- Be Open and Honest: Transparency is key in mediation. Sharing your concerns and being honest about your needs can foster trust and lead to better outcomes.

  

- Maintain Respect: Even if disagreements arise, maintaining a respectful tone can help keep the conversation productive and focused.

  

- Seek Legal Advice: Before, during, and after mediation, consulting with a family law attorney can provide valuable insights and ensure that your rights are protected.

 

 

Navigating the child custody mediation process in Alaska can be challenging, but with preparation and a collaborative mindset, parents can reach agreements that serve their children's best interests. Mediation not only offers a way to resolve disputes amicably but also sets the stage for healthier co-parenting in the future. If you're facing custody issues, consider mediation as a viable option and seek guidance from experienced professionals to help you through the process. 

 

For more information or to schedule a consultation, call Shortell Law LLC at (907)272-8181 today. We're here to support you every step of the way.